The Art Of Flirting – How To Flirt With Women
We will begin with a question.
Have you ever met a girl you liked, and despite your best efforts, you got stuck in the “lets just be friends” category?
Do you ever wonder why this happens?
More than likely you did know how to flirt with her properly.
Since flirting is a vital element in the process of attraction and you don’t do it correctly, or even worse, not at all, you may be leaving your opportunity to be with the woman up to chance.
What is the importance of flirting?
This is easy flirting creates sexual tension.
And if you don’t have sexual tension in an interaction, there is no attraction. And if there’s no attraction, what does that make you?
You guessed it – A FRIEND!
You can increase the attraction a woman finds in you by knowing how to flirt with her.
And the secret is – flirting isn’t really as hard as many people think. In fact, it can be a lot of fun. The only time flirting doesn’t work is when it’s done WRONG.
The art of flirting with women is all about communicating your romantic interest in the woman rather than just letting the cat out of the bag.
Blended signals are what this is.
You communicate one thing yet your words state something very different.
Some of the most common mistakes men make while flirting with a woman include:
MISTAKE #1: Being Too Obvious
Some men find it overwhelming when they feel attraction to a woman and then spit it all out at once letting her know how they feel. This type of presentation of information places the woman at a disadvantage of deciding what she feels for the man.
Keep in mind, by not laying the groundwork properly beforehand, you risk the chance of finding rejection from the woman.
MISTAKE #2: Not Being Obvious Enough!
If you make no effort to communicate your interest, yet think the woman will just know what you feel, when you do make a move it surprises the woman, because up until that point she has no idea of your interest.
MISTAKE #3: They Rely More On Words Than Actions
A great deal of flirting has to do with what you say, but the more powerful techniques are NON-VERBAL body language stuff. Tiny things like an eyebrow raise, a head tilt, or a wicked smile can give new meaning to an otherwise benign remark.
MISTAKE #4: Taking Things Too Seriously
Flirting is a lighthearted and fun practice, it is when serious romantic gestures begin that causes the sexual tension to break down.
You are doing something wrong when you or the woman is not having fun while you flirt.
I could list more mistakes like these, but I think you get the idea. So what’s the right way to start flirting?
Use as many sexual overtones as possible, this is a good way to flirt, however, you must keep it subtle.
Let us say you are at a bar, for example and the woman you are with orders a drink and then asks if you would like one as well, you can jokingly say to her, You aren’t trying to get me drunk and take advantage of me, are you, while adding a nod and a wink.
This lets her know you are interested without saying it outright. Flirting is implication and it is fun and lighthearted.
On the other hand, when a woman states something temptingly naughty to you, you might state to her, Stop trying to seduce me, you minx! You know I don’t do that on the first date.
Do you comprehend how all this works?
As you begin flirting more and more, you begin to get a bit more obvious about your interests, even though you never really step over that line.
While doing this, you begin to notice the attraction that’s building between you and the woman. Before much longer, all that harmless flirting turns into outright seduction.
And that’s when the real fun begins.
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