The Dumb Jock Should Be Your Dating God!
I’m on my way to the supermarket the other day listening to the radio like I always do. I’m singing along to the lyrics of Everything You Want by vertical Horizon when suddenly I’ve an epiphany! Do you know the song I’m speaking about? It goes,” he is everything you want, he is everything you need but he means nothing to you and you don’t know why”?
This is a truly incredible song if you can stop and think about what the words are really saying. The song is describing the lifelong plight of the “nice guy”. It’s surprising how many nice guys have problems hooking up with women. They can’t get a date because of the simple fact that they’re TOO nice.
Let me lay it out for you in one simple sentence. Nice guys don’t get the girls because they’re too nice, which means the women do not feel attraction for them. When they look at these men they see a friend and nothing more.
The simplicity of it all struck me while I was listening to Everything You Want. These nice guys are everything that women SAY they want. They are sweet, complementary and romantic, and they probably love their families and their mothers. But while he is everything she says she wants – she wants nothing to do with him.
The attractive woman is going to end up dating some muscle-bound no neck jock whose greatest goal in life is to graduate college in the next 10 years and treats her like a shoe. What’s she see in him? Attraction.
What I am NOT saying is that you should be rude or treat women like crap. What I do want to tell you is that in order to get a date you need to create attraction with a woman from the beginning. You need to create that attraction and fan the flames to keep it going.
So what does a single man do to accomplish this? There are any number of things you can do, but one of my personal favorites is using a little humor combined with roguish behavior (otherwise known as Cocky Comedy). In other words – you need to bust her balls and keep her on her toes at all times. She needs to NOT know what you might do next in order to keep her from being able to tell if her charms are working on you.
Nice guys are the first to let women know they are attracted to them by giving them compliments, buying them drinks and generally treating her like a queen. But what this does is it kills the attraction because it kills the game for a woman. The dumb jock is not going to let her know how much he wants her or how attracted he is. He is going to make her be the one to vie for his attention. That, my friend, is what will get you the girl.
So remember – if you tend to be a nice guy, just sing that Vertical Horizon song to yourself and quit being that man that she’ll not want. Give her what she really wants by being a little bit of a bad boy and your dating life will turn around. Read more on the relationship between bad boys, nice guys, and the women they both want – click below.
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